Does anyone else hate children in need?

I agree that I hate being guilted into giving money for any cause. I'm all for donating to worthy causes and to helping those in need, but I agree that when the government expects citizens to pick up their slack it makes me not want to give at all. I really hate that I donated to the families of the 9/11 victims only to find out down the road that some families received over a million dollars and spent it on luxurious extras that I sure don't have. I hate donating money for children in need and having the money go for the "administrative expenses" of the charity. I'd rather give directly to the family in need.