Being comfortable ualy.?

shouldn't be a focus point in a relationship. I'm 16, and had done stuff and never felt comfortable until I had a longer relationship which I'm still in at the moment. When your with someone for a while, and develop a ual relationship you can talk with them, get comfortable with their body, your own body, your uality etc. Also, personally I don't find the people that I really love ually attractive straight off the bat, I mean "having a ual vibe" can also just mean being sleazy. I would listen to some more experienced points of view too though. =]